At what point do you stop watching a person self destruct while slowly destroying their family at the same time, and do something? And what do you do?
Granted, the point of being an adult is figuring out shit on your own, falling, and learning to pick yourself up again. Yet, you lose that privilege of free fall and rise when it damages those around you. You want to continuously screw up, fine! But do it alone. Don’t drag down the innocent with you. Especially when you are aware of the situation, yet refuse to remedy it.
Addiction comes in all forms, that’s why there are a million different support groups to help people through. But its not just your problem. Self destruct alone somewhere then. If you are so selfish and needy that you can’t break away from the one thing that will destroy all the good in your life, then you need serious help. Go find it. Its available. Is everywhere. And its probably right in front of you.
Addiction, for anything or anyone can be a bitch. But you lose all rights for me or anyone else to be sympathetic when you admit its a problem and know its destroying your life, and choose to continue.
Life isn’t always easy. There is always someone else around the corner who has been through much worse that you have.
At what point do you say enough is enough and take control of your life?! Natural Disasters, accidents, war, these things you can’t control. You can control your bad decisions!
Rule of thumb, if everyone in your life is questioning your decisions, or staging interventions……you may want to start paying attention to your life and stop screwing it up. Because if its gone this far, you NEED to wake the fuck up! Wake up and realize that you have been making huge mistakes and you need to grow up, take control, and fix your shit before you lose everyone and everything.
Stop making excuses and start making solutions. Or, continue on this path and end up all alone, because that’s the route you’re headed down.
Tag Archive: relationships
I get what a pain in the ass it is to get divorced. Been there, done that. It sucks! Big time. Even if it was the right choice. Its a destruction of your entire family and friends of epic proportions. It is a complete loss at its core.
But why the hell would an individual go from one complete loser right to another?!
I want an answers here people. Cuz Im not getting it.
Where is the self respect?!
I raised my standards, significantly! I would rather spend the rest of my life alone than ever spend so much as one more minute with the likes of my ex or any other form of that damaging pathetic excuse for a man.
So why?! WHY?! I ask, can some people not see they deserve better and demand it? Its frustrating beyond all. And I try to be a good friend and be supportive. But Im also someone that when asked my opinion, I give it. Honestly. And then at some point, I have to just pull back and try not to say anything anymore. But I really want to understand what they hell these people are thinking.
